Scott J. DaDante

  • When we complain and focus on our partner's faults, and all we see and receive are more faults.

  • Focus on what we appreciate about our partner's and not on what we're complaining about.

  • Who's coming into this relationship? Not your partner, but you and know and understand yourself.

  • Surround yourself with what you're looking for in a relationship, so you can physically see it instead of just wishing it inside.

  • To love another person, you first have to love yourself.

  • Do you treat yourself the way you want others to treat you?

  • Don't expect your partner to show you your beauty. You recognize your own beauty and invent yourself!

  • If you are in a bad mood and your partners in a good mood you will find yourselves in a different moment. Recreate your relationship by using "The law of attraction."

  • You become the solution to you by giving more to yourself. It's not that someone has to give more to you.

  • Fill yourself up to fullness until you overflow. People will notice this in you and want a piece of it and this overflow will allow you to share it.

  • Write down new things about what you appreciate about our partner. This is like taking time out of your normal routine to refocus on why you are with them.

  • A parent, a child, a spouse and even the people closest to you do not have the control to create your happiness -- Our joy lies within us.

  • Many times we give our partners the opportunity to create our happiness and many times they fail because they do not create it the way we want them to. Why? Because only one person can be in charge of our Joy and our Bliss and that person is you!